Unfortunately, for a young woman today, it can have a negative connotation. However, there are some advantages--a stable, loyal friend (if the partner is such) and the ability to focus more on one's life (read: education and interests) versus all that expenditure of energy in constantly trying to impress yet another new person...
Her definition is a movie, two or three nice dinners, a trip to Starbucks, a day at the beach, and that's it.
But Sun recently found a whole new audience and pivoted the service into a social network for introverts, as counter-intuitive as that sounds.
Unlike some of its competitors like Whisper, it's not fully anonymous, but shy users can mask themselves with avatars.
He just freezes up talking to her in front of her friends.
He really wants to say something to her but he's worried sick.